Sunday 7 August 2022

Seeing Through The Mist


Seeing Through The Mist, Snowy Mountains Australia

'Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see as if face to face. Now I know of life, in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known by God.'  1 Corinthian 13:12 

The morning was enveloped with a thick mist as I walked alone on a lonely country road in the Snowy Mountains region in Jindabyne, Australia. The fresh air laden with dew was cold on my face but I did not mind; walking alone that morning brought serenity and solace. These lonely moments are hard to find.

The road before me was obscured by fog but it was sufficiently visible to ascertain the direction of my path. I realised that the ability to see through the mist, even with some degree of uncertainty, is exactly how I have obtained guidance from God throughout life. My limited vision and mind cannot completely comprehend God nor let me view life with definite clarity.

Fogginess can be a natural aspect of life. When we try to perceive life, we must be prepared to peer through the mist and accept some mystery. Calvin Miller (Ref 1) said "Mystical is that wonderful word we apply to things that have ultimate meaning but elude our understanding." He advocated that Christians need not always perceive life cognitively. We should lose the desire to always want to be in control. This is what I have also learnt especially since that I started meditation from April 2021.

With solitary walks or with meditation, we learn to drop false pragmatism and embrace the practical reality that the Holy Spirit like the wind brings some uncertainty. We can sense its presence but will be uncertain where it comes from and whither it will go.

But we are not left alone groping. That morning when I walked through the mist I was not alone. I prayed and sang as though God walked with me and indeed He did. Although, we see through tinted glasses of our own inadequacies and sinfulness, there is comfort in the Christian understanding and experience that God is close at hand.

There is silence but the walk is not solitary. Two songs accompanied me.

Walk with me through the long and lonely night
Walk with me and my world is filled with light
Here I stand feeling lost and so alone
Take my hand don't desert me now
Please don't hurt me now
If you walk with me though I know the road is long
I'll get by with your love to make me strong
More by far than a guiding star above
I long for you
Walk with me oh my love
Somewhere the sunbirds fly
In a clear blue sky
Only you and I there together
Love me now and for ever
Walk with me through the long and lonely night
Walk with me and my world is filled with light
Here I stand feeling lost and so alone
Take my hand don't desert me now
Please don't hurt me now
If you walk with me though I know the road is long
I'll get by with your love to make me strong
More by far than a guiding star above
I long for you
Walk with me oh my love
I long for you
Walk with me oh my love

I'm not alone while walking o'er life's journey.
I have a friend who walks along with me.
I'm not alone although I'm often lonely.
My saviour God is by me constantly.
So when the storms of life assail me
and earthly friendships fail me,
I'll sing and smile o'er every mile
till I reach my heavenly home.

St Paul wrote in 1 Cor 13:12, 

Now we see but a poor reflection of life and it's journey as in a mirror; then we shall see distinctly as if face to face. Now I know of life, in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known by God (italics mine).


Lionel

Updated 1st published 9 Oct 2008

1. Calvin Miller “Into the Depths of God” Bethany House, 2000

Sunday 31 July 2022

The Anatomy of Unity


'Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ.' 1 Corinthians 12:12

One of the most difficult questions faced by Christians is 'Why are we so divided, why so many denominations?' There are the Roman Catholic Church, the Orthodox Churches, the Protestant Churches along with the many denominations, Anglicans, Presbyterians, Assemblies of God, Methodist among others.

Church movements occur in different countries and at different times. Such growth result in the establishment of churches connected with one another through their shared experience. This occurs with the two major branches of Christianity, the Catholic and the Orthodox Churches. Other times the original church enter into a time of complacency even apostasy which resulted in the congregations deserting the original church as occurred in the reformation which resulted in the third major branch, the Protestant Church.

The Protestant church is further divided into several denominations. An example was the establishment of the Methodist Churches distinct from the original Episcopal Church of England, the Anglicans where the original congregants worshipped. Each denomination established its unique and shared identity often exemplified by distinctive worship rituals, liturgy and practices. The denominations may have differing beliefs in minor doctrines or subtle nuances in the understanding of major doctrines.

However Christians soon realised there is much commonality and universality in their beliefs. These are, 
  • the profession of faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour
  • the Bible as the infallible, inerrant word of God
  • the common baptism in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. 
Thus, ecumenism took roots whereby Christians, while belonging to different denominations, work together and develop closer relationships amongst and within churches.  

St Paul introduced Unity in Diversity using the example of the human body. Faced with differences in the early Christians, St Paul used the analogy of the different parts and functions of the human body to stress that these different parts can work together as one body with each part equally as important as the other.

'The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up one whole body. So it is with the body of Christ. Some of us are Jews, some are Gentiles, some are slaves and others are free. But we have all been baptised into one body by one Spirit and we all share the same Spirit. 

Yes the body has many different parts, not just one part. If the foot says, "I am not a part of the body because I am not a hand," that does not make it any less a part of the body. And if the ear says, "I am not an eye," would that not make it any less a part of the body? If the whole body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if the whole body were an ear, how would you smell anything?

But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where He wants it. How strange a body would be if it had only one part! Yes there are many parts but only one body. 1 Cor 12:12-19

The founding fathers of Singapore also recognised the value of Unity in Diversity and advanced the distinctiveness of the different races, cultures and religions within the polyglot nature of the country. They advocated that each be given its unique space and all others should recognise the different spaces. Yet, to live in harmony there needs to be a common shared space which every different community (spaces) should honour and identify ourselves. That common shared space should be upheld, defended and expressed. This is so much like the Christian understanding of the Body; the Anatomy of Unity.

Again and again Singaporeans are reminded that while we acknowledge our different identities we also share a common Singaporean identity. This was the theme in a recent Youth Conference, 'Weaving Multiple Identity, Forging Common Ground.' Mr Lawrence Wong, the Deputy Prime Minister of Singapore, speaking at that conference said, "We must be a society that celebrates all individuals for what they are, what they can achieve, and provides them with the opportunities to do better throughout their lives. But regardless of our diverse backgrounds, there's also something very special about the commonality we share, all of us as Singaporeans....It is in our attitudes, it is in our mindsets, and shared experiences." (Straits Times 25 Jul 2022).

A lack of understanding of this seemingly paradoxical concept of Unity in Diversity leads to misinterpreting Uniformity for Unity. Uniformity leads to the pressure to conform. 


Our modern culture promotes diversity and its ethos promotes individual rights. Individualism to the extreme can often challenge the community of the church we are building, the 'koinonia' of the local church. At the same time, we recognise our uniqueness and differences. Every one is welcome into the church family, whatever our status, however our individual preferences, our differences. Such welcome may bring the local church massive challenges but we want to live in close community with one another.

This will continue to be a ongoing challenge. Recognising differences and constantly refining and defining the common spaces apply just as much to churches as they apply to governments of multiracial societies. St Paul advocated being sensitive to these differences, yet caring for one another,

'So God has put the body together such that extra honour and care were given to those parts that have less dignity. This makes for harmony among members so that all the members care for each other.' 1 Cor 12:24-25 (NLT)

In things that matter we have One Lord, One Spirit, One Love. Though of many parts, we will find unity in Jesus Christ, The Church's One Foundation.


The church's one foundation
is Jesus Christ her Lord;
She is his new creation
by water and the Word.
From heaven he came and sought her
to be his holy bride;
with his own blood he bought her,
and for her life he died.

Elect from every nation,
yet one o'er all the earth;
Her charter of salvation,
one Lord, one faith, one birth;
One holy name she blesses,
partakes one holy food,
and to one hope she presses,
with every grace endued.

Mid toil and tribulation,
and tumult of her war,
She waits the consummation
of peace forevermore;
Till, with the vision glorious,
her longing eyes are blest,
and the great church victorious
shall be the church at rest.

Yet she on earth hath union
with God the Three in One,
and mystic sweet communion
with those whose rest is won.
O happy ones and holy!
Lord, give us grace that we
like them, the meek and lowly,
on high may dwell with thee.


This solid foundation is the make up of an attractive church, an attractive community.


Lionel


Sunday 24 July 2022

The Distinctive Marks of Strong Christian Families

 

Amish Barn Raising

'The promise is for you and for your children and for all who are far off, everyone whom the Lord our God calls to himself.' Acts 2:32

Civilizations and nations that thrive understand that underpinning their strength is the attention and priority to strong family principles and values. But, these days, children like to be independent at very early ages. This streak of independence and self-help is not wrong in itself; what will be missed is the sense of community and togetherness of strong families when times become difficult. 

Gotong Royong

In Singapore and Malaysia there is a Malay term ‘gotong-royong.’ Gotong Royong exist in the Malay kampongs (enclaves) where families will chip in and help another family in need or the whole community in a spirit of co-operation. You see this same spirit in the Amish community as noted by barn raisings. Neighbors freely give of their time and their skills to help one another. When children leave home too early without first capturing the gotong-royong or family spirit something will remain missing in their lives.

The Lee Family

Christianity emphasises the importance of keeping the family strong but at no other times are family values threatened and undervalued than in these modern times. To prevent this it may be useful for us to heed the guidance of God in establishing strong Christian principles of keeping our family together. Effective family life does not just happen; it’s the result of deliberate intention and practice. If countries are underpinned by strong families then strong families are undergirded by God's teachings. What are these principles?

 

Hear the Truth Continually

'Hear O Israel, the Lord is Our God, the Lord is one.' Deuteronomy 6:4 

Strong families lean hard on some unshakeable facts and this is a major one. The Lord is OUR God is not a statement to be uttered like some mantra but to be lived. The is not a personal matter but must be our family statement. Just as the Lord is One, the family is also one. 

Love the Lord fervently

'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.' Deuteronomy 6:5-6  

Underline the word ALL. Our love for God must be complete. It is not possible to transfer to our children a principle and then to propagate through the succeeding generations if we as parents do not personally embrace a love for God that permeates all of our being. The family’s love for God must be a deep down dedication. 

Teach the Young Diligently

'Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.' Deuteronomy 6:7

The take-home message here is one of intensity, to teach every time and every where. To do this, teaching must be such that it is done in very natural setting making use of every opportunity that life presents to point the children to God and His love. The teaching has to be consistent and in many ways repetitious. It is not only to be communicated with verbal cues but with visual cues, body language - parents must live the teaching.

Extended Lee Family

Fear the Lord Greatly. 

'I gave you land you have not worked on, and I gave you towns you did not build - the towns where you are now living. I gave you vineyards and olive groves for food, though you did not plant them. So fear the lord and serve him wholehearted.... Serve the Lord alone.' Joshua 24:13-14  

The things we own, our wealth, our other blessings comes directly from God. God is always looking out for us. There is a saying 'do not bite the hand that feed you.' How easy when blessed to adopt a presumptuous and arrogant spirit? We are surrounded by other gods of materialism, fame, riches, power, ambition, etc. We need a healthy dose of the ‘fear of God,' the reverence and a wholesome respect for His sovereignty and primacy in our lives and our families. 

Strong families build strong houses. Strong families are also the underpinnings of strong churches. Welcome to the Family! 


Welcome to the family
We're glad that you have come
To share your life with us
As we grow in love and
May we always be to you
What God would have us be
A family always there
To be strong and to lean on,

May we learn to love each other
More with each new day
May words of love be on our lips
In everything we say
May the Spirit melt our hearts
And teach us how to pray
That we might be a true family


Lionel

Updated 1st Published 28 Jul 2007

Sunday 17 July 2022

Every Moment Matters


Be very careful, then, how you live —not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.  Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.’ Eph 4:15-17 

One of my most satisfying duties as the chairman of the Dover Park Hospice was to commission a new logo for the hospice. Designed by DP Architects’ creative unit, the logo features two forms, the Circle of Life and the Dove. The Circle represents the passage of life, the trials and experiences of life well-lived. Significantly, the Circle is not enclosed, allowing the Dove to soar free and take flight, full of hope and dignity. The tagline “Every Moment Matters” is inspired by the words of Dame Cicely Saunders, founder of the modern hospice movement.

“You matter because you are you, and you matter to the end of your life.” - Dame Cicely Saunders. 

Every moment matters is a philosophy for living. We should live as if we savour every moment, every minute and every day. With every passing moment we should live well, not only for ourselves, but also for others and God. A certain smile, a kind word or a brilliant thought can have an everlasting impact. Conversely, a momentary inattention, a missed opportunity can exact dire consequences. (See Panasonic Commercial below for a dramatic illustration).



We are familiar with the phrase ‘In God we live and move and have our being.’ In theology, this refers toCoram Deo’, which is Latin for ‘before the face of God.’ Coram Deo, conveys the idea of living one’s entire life in the presence of God, under the authority of God and to the glory of God. 
Benjamin Franklin understood this when he said, "Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of." 

When we visited the Amish county at Lancashire, Pennsylvania in 1992, I bought a wooden plaque engraved with an Amish proverb, ‘Ve get too soon oldt and too late schmardt.’

Consider the life of Charles Thomas Studd. He established an enduring Christian missionary society, the World Evangelisation Crusade. Studd was the son of a wealthy indigo planter and a leading cricketer. He played for England in the 1882 cricket match between England and Australia which was the origin of the famous Ashes cricket tournament. Despite the chance to be a famous international sportsman, in February 1885, C.T along with a group of young men, called the ‘Cambridge Seven’ set sail from England to become missionaries. They volunteered to serve in China after attending meetings at Cambridge University, following Hudson Taylor in the newly established, China Inland Missions.

After more than 10 years service in China C.T. Studd left the country to pastor a church in South India from 1900 to 1906. In 1910 he went to the Sudan and Belgian Congo. In 1913, he started four mission stations and went on to  establish the World Evangelism Crusade which today continues to send missionaries to South America, Central Asia and the Middle East as well as Africa.

C.T. gave away a sizeable portion of his family inheritance to help the work of George Muller, D. L. Moody and others on the mission field. At the age of seventy, C.T. Studd died, but his vision for China, India and Africa had expanded to reach the whole world.

He wrote this poem, One Life

Two little lines I heard one day,
Traveling along life's busy way;
Bringing conviction to my heart, 
And from my mind would not depart;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

Only one life, yes only one, 
Soon will its fleeting hours be done;
Then, in 'that day' my Lord to meet, 
And stand before His Judgment seat;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

Only one life, the still small voice, 
Gently pleads for a better choice
Bidding me selfish aims to leave, 
And to God's holy will to cleave;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

Only one life, a few brief years, 
Each with its burdens, hopes, and fears;
Each with its days I must fulfill, 
living for self or in His will;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

When this bright world would tempt me sore, 
When Satan would a victory score;
When self would seek to have its way, 
Then help me Lord with joy to say;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

Give me Father, a purpose deep, 
In joy or sorrow Thy word to keep;
Faithful and true what e'er the strife, 
Pleasing Thee in my daily life;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

Oh let my love with fervor burn, 
And from the world now let me turn;
Living for Thee, and Thee alone, 
Bringing Thee pleasure on Thy throne;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last.

Only one life, yes only one, 
Now let me say, “Thy will be done”;
And when at last I'll hear the call, 
I know I'll say "'twas worth it all";
Only one life, 'twill soon be past, 
Only what's done for Christ will last

Make the best use of the time we have. There is much good to do with our lives. May the Lord show us the way. Every moment matters.


In His time, in His time
He makes all things beautiful
In his time
Lord please show me everyday
As you're teaching me your way
That you do just what you say
In your time
In your time, in your time
You make all things beautiful
In your time
Lord my life to you I bring
May each song I have to sing
Be to you a lovely thing
In your time
Lord please show me everyday
As you teaching me your way
That you do just what you say
In your time
Lord my life to you I bring
May each song I have to sing
Be to you a lovely thing
In your time
Be to you a lovely thing
In your time


Lionel

Updated 1st Published Jul 2012

Sunday 10 July 2022

Time's Running Out! Find Purpose

Bright candle in the darkness
Photo by 
Markus Merz
Then Jesus told them, "You are going to have the light just a little while longer. Walk while you have the light, before darkness overtakes you. The man who walks in the dark does not know where he is going. Put your trust in the light while you have it, so that you may become sons of light." John 12:35-36

Time flies. Even though Christians are assured of everlasting life and spending eternity with Jesus, we know that life on earth is finite. Hence there is a certain urgency, with the passing of time to seize the day to live in such a manner as to  please God. Jesus told us to make use of the opportunity before our time on this earth run out.

What is your view of time? The Ancient Greeks have two words for time
  • Chronos (χρόνος) or Every Moment Passes that is the measure of time
  • Kairos (καιρός) or Every Moment Matters that is the meaning of time

Chronos refers to chronological or sequential time, it is quantitative. Kairos signifies the proper or opportune time, the defining moment. Kairos suggests that time has value and is not just a quantity. In the New Testament, Kairos is used to describe the appointed time or the God-ordained time.

We should use the Kairos time wisely. Jesus Christ exhorts us to, 

“Walk while you are in the light before darkness overtakes you.” 

There are defining moments that we should seize to influence others for good. We should walk in the light so that the wisdom, the guidance, the influence that will shape and mold us are not lost as the time passes; that light around and within us can also shape and influence friends and family. There is a purpose to life. 

Many years back, our church the Charis Methodist Church launched the '40 Days of Purpose' Campaign. It was centred on the book “The Purpose Driven Life” by Rick Warren. Then our Pastor, the Rev Yeo Lay Suan introduced the campaign asking the question “What on earth are we here for?” 

Pastor Yeo told an anecdote of an eaglet which fell into a farmer’s coop and was raised amongst the chickens. All its life, the eagle thought that it was a chicken and never knew the truth of what it is like to fly and to feel the wind beneath its wings. How tragic?

It would also be tragic for us to live life if near the end we assess it to be futile. That was the lament of the preacher in the Bible book Ecclesiastes, 

 'Meaningless! Meaningless! Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless!

But life matters! Jesus tells us to stay in the light; the man who walks in darkness does not know where he is going. Be in the Light of Jesus so that we can see that we are no chickens but eagles and fulfil our purposes in life. 

In the search for meaning in life during the 'hippie days' of the 1960s, the song 'Turn Turn Turn' written by Peter Seeger became very popular. 


To everything (turn, turn, turn)
There is a season (turn, turn, turn)
And a time to every purpose, under heaven
A time to be born, a time to die
A time to plant, a time to reap
A time to kill, a time to heal
A time to laugh, a time to weep
A time to build up, a time to break down
A time to dance, a time to mourn
A time to cast away stones, a time to gather stones together
A time of love, a time of hate
A time of war, a time of peace
A time you may embrace, a time to refrain from embracing
To everything (turn, turn, turn)
There is a season (turn, turn, turn)
And a time to every purpose, under heaven
A time to gain, a time to lose
A time to rend, a time to sew
A time for love, a time for hate
A time for peace, I swear it's not too late

Using the theme from Ecclesiastes Chapter 3, this song tells us that there is a purpose to life. Time does not just flit away, Kairos not Chronos. Find Purpose, Find Meaning, Find God.

“For I know, the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11



Lionel

Updated 1st published 15 Aug 2007