'For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.. Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you do for Me.' Matthew 25:35-36 and 40.
A Christian brother, Kenneth Lau, shared a story which left me with a lasting impression of Christian Hospitality and its positive influence on the recipient. Kenneth was a student in the USA and he related that one wintry day he decided to go on a cycling marathon. Unfortunately as it got dark, Kenneth cycled into snow storm. Soon he could no longer go further, whereupon he chanced on a brightly lighted house. He knocked on the door to ask for shelter.
The host warmly welcomed him, sat him by the fire to dry and then invited him to join the family's thanksgiving dinner. There was Kenneth, intruding into this Christian family thanksgiving and yet, he was received as one of them and shared a happy meal. Perhaps the most memorable for Kenneth
When the storm subsided, Kenneth cycled back to the University. He shared with us that at that encounter his Christian faith was strengthened for he had partaken of the love of God shared by this Christian family. This incident anchored his faith in Jesus Christ.
What a fine example of Christian hospitality so wonderfully offered to a complete stranger!
Hospitality was a hallmark of the early Christian church, the willingness to open up their homes to others, even to strangers. This was a major factor contributing to the spread of the gospel wherein itinerant preachers were offered accommodation in the homes of the early Christian families and shared meals. The early church was obedient to Christ's teaching in Matt 25, the Parable of the Sheep and the Goats.
Hebrews 13:2 reminded, 'Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.' In 3 John 1:5 the apostle John praised his friend Gaius, "Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you."
The sharing of a meal is a commonplace practice in Asian families especially with the Chinese. This is not the easiest thing to do. It is a gift. When we extend hospitality to friends and strangers, we have to receive them in a free and friendly space in which they will not feel strange but welcomed, the same way that Kenneth was welcomed that wintry thanksgiving evening.
So let us be willing to share our private spaces. We can invite people into our lives yet exclude them from ourselves and keep them at a distance. Discover the other person and be a true friend because
- True friends are lasting.
- True friends are anchored by God's love.
- True friends dare to love.
- True friends provide mutual encouragement.
Thank you, Lionel. Another great sharing
ReplyDeleteThank you for this great reminder.
ReplyDeleteIt reminds us to make a conscious effort to open our home to others around us too, beyond our family and friends
Thank you for this great reminder.
ReplyDeleteIt reminds us to make a conscious effort to open our home to others around us too, beyond our family and friends
My sister Christine wrote:
ReplyDeleteThank you Lionel for your blog on friendship and hospitality. I think we have learnt a great deal from Mum about hospitality - how the door of our flat at Blk 179 Toa Payoh Central was always open. What a wonderful cook Mum was and sometimes church friends will come and join us for meals.
We enjoy the hospitality of the sibling group, e.g. Pat always cooking for us and inviting us. We learn to surround ourselves with true friends who will open their homes to us as we open our homes to them.