Welcome To The Family

The Charis Methodist Church Family

'Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; His greatness no one can fathom. They tell of Your mighty acts. They speak of the glorious splendor of Your majesty. They tell of the power of Your awesome works. They celebrate Your abundant goodness and joyfully sing of Your righteousness. ' Psalm 145:3a,4a,5a,6a,7

 

Why do we go to church?

• To worship God
• To sing praises
• To sing hymns
• To pray
• To hear God's Words read from the Bible.
• To hear inspirational sermons
• To hear good music and chorale singing
• To enjoy sanctuary.
• To fellowship with friends and encourage one another.

The answer to the question should be all of the above and in that answer we give the full expression for church attendance, as one family and the body of Christ,  Total Church. 

There is a special meaning for me to come for the worship service of my church, Charis Methodist Church. I come to join my friends, my brothers and sisters in worship and confession of my faith. It is my spiritual refreshment at the start of every week. King David wrote of the joy of corporate worship.

'I was glad when they said to me, "Let us go to the house of the Lord.' Psalms 122:1 (NLT) 

Nowadays the standard of the preaching or the quality of the music seem to be the main attractions. Many move from church to church, now from zoom to zoom, to hear the great speakers that can inspire and deliver good sermons every week. Others are attracted to the praise singing or the choir. Unfortunately not all local churches will be so endowed or gifted, thus leaving some members disappointed. 

If we come for Sunday service only for the sermons and music, we fail to understand the two imperatives for regular church attendance

• To worship God -the Triune God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit
• To profess the spirit of the Christian family - the Body of Christ

Every Sunday serves to bring out these two aspects of the church, the Corporate Worship and the Family of Believers. 

When a person enters the house of God, he should be struck by reverential awe. The architecture of the sanctuary, whether simple or ornate should help the worshipper sense peace and beauty. 

St Peter's Church, Munich

'One thing I ask from the Lord, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek Him in His temple.' Psalm 27:4

The Orthodox Christians celebrate Christ, the Lord of Hosts and adorn their churches with gilded icons and golden coloured frescoes to uplift the Christus Pantocratos. The crucifix in Catholic churches draws attention to the suffering and sacrifice of Christ. The simple cross in Protestant churches celebrates the victory of the resurrected Christ. Yet some others, like the Quakers believe in making their sanctuary simple and minimalistic. 

Some churches used the organ, piano and choir in the prelude, during and postlude to help in the worship. Others use prayer and praise sessions. Still others use silence and prayer. All should help direct the congregants' attention to God and enhance the spirit of connection.

The song, 'Come Now Is The Time To Worship' helps express this connection.

 

Come, now is the time to worship
Come, now is the time to give your heart
Come, just as you are to worship
Come, just as you are before your God, Come

One day every tongue will confess You are God
One day every knee will bow
Still the greatest treasure remains for those
Who gladly choose You now

The second imperative to come to church is the gathering of the family of God. This gathering allows 'Koinonia' or Fellowship. We build our friendships and learn to grow along with others as Christian brothers and sisters. We help, comfort, and strengthen each other. The Bible encourages us to meet together regularly for mutual encouragement and spurring each other to remain faithful.

'And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another...' Hebrews 10:24-25

This expression of family strengthens the church and in turn allows the congregation to go beyond themselves to consider outreach and service to others. We engage as one family in missions, evangelism, witnessing, social concerns and outreach. Just as worship enables the vertical relationship between Church and God, fellowship strengthens the horizontal relationships between friends, families and reaches out to the the community. This is an expression of the Total Church

This song, 'Welcome to the Family' sends a powerful message of our Christian bonds and expressions of love for one another.

Welcome to the family
We're glad that you have come
To share your life with us
As we grow in love and
May we always be to you
What God would have us be
A family always there
To be strong and to lean on,

May we learn to love each other
More with each new day
May words of love be on our lips
In everything we say
May the Spirit melt our hearts
And teach us how to pray
That we might be a true family

Going to church is not personal, the church is family. It is timely that we free ourselves from personal preoccupations with sermons or music, important though they may be, but to consider brothers and sisters, coming together, to express 'Total Church.'

Lionel

A Church Without Borders

Brain Storming for a Church Without Borders

'And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased' Hebrews 13:16

My church, Charis Methodist Church is currently undergoing extensive renovations. When completed we aspire to be an 'Attractive Community' to our neighbours and become a church without borders. We could learn from St John's short third epistle to his friend, Gaius. This letter is about relationships within and without the church, amongst Christians and neighbours.

The action, described in this letter is of welcome and hospitality. It is not just a principle or theory but a practice and skill; the ability to make a stranger feel welcomed and well looked after. 

'We therefore ought to show hospitality..' 3 John 1:8

Hospitality contributed to the success of the early church. The early church grew by the witness and preaching itinerant believers, early missionaries going about to various cities and villages preaching and witnessing in order to spread the Christian message. These itinerant preachers were poor and could ill afford to stay in hotels and inns. They were dependent on the believers in cities to welcome them into their own homes and provide free board and lodging.

What is Christian Hospitality? It is that action of being welcoming and helpful to friends and even strangers, lending assistance in practical ways. John wrote,

'Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you.' 3 John 1:5

John further commended his friend Gaius and informed that others are telling the church of Gaius’ love. 

'They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honours God.' 3 John 1:6

Gaius showed a graciousness that superseded self-interest. This was the spirit of the early church and this resource stoked the fires of Church growth, not necessarily in any dramatic fashion but insidiously, ubiquitously and very tangible.

The Practice of Hospitality. Henri Nouwen a Catholic priest in his book 'Reaching Out: The Three Movements of the Spiritual Life' wrote “If there is any concept worth restoring to its original depth and evocative potential, it is the concept of hospitality." 

Welcoming strangers. When we think of hospitality, we picture having family and friends over for a pleasant meal. Or we think of the ‘hospitality industry’ of hotels and restaurants which are open to strangers so long as they can pay. But Churches could give shelter and support to the homeless, poor and needy - people who cannot return the favour.

“Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers for by doing so some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.” Hebrews 13:2

Share your meal with others. The church father Jerome challenged the medieval church to “let poor men and strangers be acquainted with your modest table, and with them Christ shall be your guest” He warned that Christian leaders may be likely to entertain only the powerful and the rich but Jesus advocated the opposite.

'Then Jesus said to his host, "When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives or your rich neighbours; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind and you will be blessed." Luke 14:12-14

Give generously to those in need. It was this early and continuing teaching in the New Testament which sparked off the generosity in Christians which then established many charitable organisations that serve the poor and needy. Many institutions were started simply at first without much resources, by persons who were led by God and who were conscience- stricken to heed the call to share what little or plenty they have with people in need.

'Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.' Romans 12:13

Jean Vanier lived in the small French village of Trosly-Breuil in Canada. One day, Jean invited two men with intellectual disabilities who were staying in a local institution to create home with him. They called their home L’Arche, meaning the Ark. Jean said, “Those who are weak have great difficulties finding their place in society. The image of the ideal human as powerful and capable disenfranchises the old, the sick and less able. So many in our world are suffering from isolation, war and oppression. I believe that those we most exclude from the normal life of society, people with disabilities, have profound lessons to teach us."

This was the dynamics of the early church. Two millenniums later, People still need us, 'People need the Lord.' It is this imperative that will spur Charis Methodist Church to become a Church without Borders. 

Everyday they pass me by

I can see it in their eyes

Empty people filled with care

Headed who knows where

On they go through private pain

Living fear to fear

Laughter hides their silent cries

Only Jesus hears

People need the Lord, people need the Lord

At the end of broken dreams, He's the open door

People need the Lord, people need the Lord

When will we realize people need the Lord?

We are called to take His light

To a world where wrong seems right

What could be too great a cost

For sharing life with one who's lost?

Through His love our hearts can feel

All the grief they bear

They must hear the words of life

Only we can share

People need the Lord, people need the Lord

At the end of broken dreams, He's the open door

People need the Lord, people need the Lord

When will we realize that we must give our lives?

For people need the Lord, people need the Lord

Lionel

We Soldier On

'If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So whether we live or die we belong to the Lord.' Romans 14:8

Pat's Uncle George passed on to Glory this week. He was 93 years old, the last surviving sibling of the my father-in-law's family of 3 girls and 4 boys. This generation had a Bishop, a senior pastor and one Bible woman.

At the wake, the family shared fond memories of Uncle George. He was quite a resourceful person, a maverick, who was in the timber business in the jungles of Indonesia when young and a contractor when he was older. But most of all we recognised Uncle George for 

• His Fervent Faith. 
• His Generosity
• His Love for Friends and Family.

To my regret, I did not give him much time of day and missed his many stories and adventures which he shared so generously to those who would listen to him. These stories inevitably led and testified to his love for the Lord. 

The youngest in the family of seven and outliving all of them, he believed in the adage

'Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.' Galatians 6:9 

George soldiered on till health got the better of him. He bore witness to a familial love  for the Jesus and service to the Church. 

What does it involved to soldier on? St Paul wrote to young Timothy using 3 metaphors to describe endurance in the Christian Life

• A good soldier 
• who can endure hardship, 
• has a single minded focus on the mission, a good witness for Christ
• is unencumbered by the burdens of life

• A prize winning athlete 
• who subjects his body to training

• A hardworking farmer
• who will enjoy the fruit of his labour

'Endure suffering along with me, as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. Soldiers don’t get tied up in the affairs of civilian life, for then they cannot please the officer who enlisted them. And athletes cannot win the prize unless they follow the rules. And hardworking farmers should be the first to enjoy the fruit of their labor.' 2 Tim 2:3-6

There is another lesson I learnt from Uncle George. That is it did not matter to him whether he lives or dies. He was happy to be released from the pain of his end-stage terminal cancer as death approached. He was willing to meet his maker many years before. This indicates an appreciation of eternity and everlasting life. 

St Paul declared to the Roman Christians that whether we live or die we belong to the Lord. This understanding and attitude frees us from the shackles and limitations of the physical life. It belies an inner strength and tenacity.

'If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So whether we live or die we belong to the Lord.' Romans 14:8

This assurance releases us from the finiteness and time-sensitivity of our current limited physical existence and gives us an unlimited eternity perspective.

So let us not be weary nor lose heart; the hymn 'Stand Up, Stand Up for Jesus' extols this stoic and resolute Christianity 

Stand up, stand up for Jesus,

Ye soldiers of the cross;

Lift high his royal banner,

It must not suffer loss.

From victory unto victory

His army shall he lead,

Till every foe is vanquished,

And Christ is Lord indeed.

Stand up, stand up for Jesus,

The trumpet call obey;

Forth to the mighty conflict

In this His glorious day.

Ye that are men now serve Him

Against unumbered foes;

Let courage rise with danger

And strength to strength oppose.

Stand up, stand up for Jesus,

Stand in His strength alone;

The arm of flesh will fail you,

Ye dare not trust your own.

Put on the gospel armour

Each piece put on with prayer

Where duty calls or danger

Be never wanting there

Stand up, stand up for Jesus,

The strife will not be long;

This day the noise of battle,

The next the victor's song.

To him that overcometh 

A crown of life shall be;

He, with the King of Glory

Shall reign eternally.  

Lionel

Look Forward

 

Heliconia Bird Of Paradise: Look Forward

'One thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press on  toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ.' Philippians 3:13-14

When King Solomon was an old man he had an advice for younger men,

'Remember your Creator in the days of your youth, before the days of trouble come and the years approach when you will say, "I have no pleasure in them." Ecclesiastes 12:1

Solomon was holding out a daunting prospect to growing old. There was nothing to look forward to other than disappointment and unhappiness. His book of Ecclesiastes started out very grimly by stating that all of life is futile and full of vanities. Towards the end of the book of Ecclesiastes, Solomon discovered the life that is worth living. He remembered God. Solomon advised the young to do the same so as to avoid futility but find fulfilment.

In 2021, our dear brother Lim Chin Leng was diagnosed to have cancer. In a New Year message for 2022, Chin Leng wrote, "Looking back, although 2021 has been a difficult year, I’m thankful that God has never forsaken me or my family as we walked through the valley of the shadow of death. God also sent many people to make sure we won’t go through this scary journey alone. Our cell group, and many in Charis, fasted and prayed for us. Many also blessed us with much needed practical help. We experienced the importance of being connected to a spiritual community during this crisis.

God is still at work in our lives as we prepare to face the unknown ahead. At the end of the day, we believe that God will show us His glory, whether I get healed or not. Thank you, church, for your love and encouragement. We appreciate you all! My prayer for you is that you too will be able to experience the presence of God in every season of your life, regardless of the challenges you face. May God bless you! The Best is Yet to Be. To God be the Glory!"

It takes much courage to battle cancer. Chin Leng demonstrated this because  God is at work in his life. Despite this setback, Chin Leng remained undaunted, he looked forward. Looking forward is looking to God.

'Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.'  Isaiah 41:10

Bishop Solomon wrote a book (Ref 1), 'We Are Pilgrims' on the 15 Songs of Ascent (Psalms 130-134). These are the songs sung by the Jewish pilgrims as they climbed their way up to Jerusalem. These songs, wrote the Bishop, "contain profound thoughts about God amid the painful realities of life". They are filled with trusting and very poignant prayers.  These prayerful songs help us to face life, its pain as well as its joy.

'I lift up my eyes to You, to You who sit enthroned in heaven' Psalm 123:1

Like the pilgrims of old singing their songs of ascent, we can carry on the upward way just as this song, 'Higher Ground' encourages us to press on. St Paul encouraged the Philippi Christians to reach forward to the things ahead and press on towards the goal, the upward call of God in Jesus Christ.

I’m pressing on the upward way,

New heights I’m gaining every day;

Still praying as I onward bound,

“Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.”

Lord, lift me up, and let me stand
By faith on Canaan’s tableland;
A higher plane than I have found,
  Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.

My heart has no desire to stay
Where doubts arise and fears dismay;
Though some may dwell where these abound,
My prayer, my aim, is higher ground.

I want to live above the world,
Though Satan’s darts at me are hurled;
For faith has caught the joyful sound,
The song of saints on higher ground.

I want to scale the utmost height
And catch a gleam of glory bright;
But still I’ll pray till rest I’ve found,
“Lord, lead me on to higher ground.”

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 

Lionel

Lift Up Mine Eyes To The Hills

Look to the Hills

 'I lift up mine eyes to the hills and I wonder from where comes my help? My help, it comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth. He will not let you stumble, He will not let you fall, the Lord is your keeper. The sun will not strike you by day nor the moon by night, the Lord will keep your life. I lift up mine eyes to the hills and I wonder, I wonder where comes my help.' Psalm 121

Psalms 121 is a wonderful promise and assurance of the Lord God protecting His people. There is a wonderful hymn 'I Lift Up Mine Eyes' by Allen Pote which so beautifully captivates this reassuring message of the Lord's protection. God’s protection is ubiquitous and all-encompassing, at all times of the day and in every hour. 

I will lift up mine eyes to the hills, 

and I wonder from where comes my help? 

My help, it comes from the Lord, 

The maker of heaven and earth. 

I lift up my eyes to the hills and I wonder,

I wonder, where is my help

He will not let you stumble, 

He will not let you fall, the Lord is your keeper. 

The sun will not strike you by day nor the moon by night,

The Lord will keep your life.

I lift up mine eyes to the hills, 

And I wonder, I wonder where is my help? 

The Lord will keep you from all evil. 

He will keep your life.

 The Lord will keep you from all evil. 

He will keep your life.

He will keep your going out, 

and your coming in from this time forth, 

And forevermore. 

He will not let you stumble, 

He will not let you fall, The Lord is your keeper. 

The sun will not strike you by day, nor the moon by night. 

The Lord will keep your life. 

I lift up mine eyes to the hills, 

And I wonder from where comes my help? 

My help it comes from the Lord, 

The maker of heaven and earth.

I lift up mine eyes to the hills 

And I wonder, I wonder where is my help?

What was the Lord God protecting us against when the Bible made mention of the sun striking by the day and the moon by night? The Psalm points to two negative emotions, fear and guilt, described as a night time terror and a day time shame.

When we are young, we are all afraid of the dark. Darkness can hide things - secrets, sins, sinister motives, evil intentions. Night brings a dark foreboding feeling of terror and evil. We all have experienced the pilo-erection of the hairs on the skin and the cold sweat on our brow when we walk down lonely, dark lanes. It is the fear of the unknown, of danger lurking in dark corners.

My grandson, James, learned to sleep by himself from about 6 months old. He used to require us to pat him to sleep and I would sing to him a simple chorus, 'I love You Lord.' However, I often had visions of James waking up at night fearing the darkness. But James is a brave boy and he settled back to sleep quickly; secured in the knowledge that his parents and grandparents are always there for him, even when he cannot see nor feel our presence. 

Like James, most of us learn to deal with our fears although some can be crippled by irrational and chronic anxieties. Such people conceive impending doom and worry over every little thing. When and if that happens,  the Shepherd's Psalm often comes to mind

'Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.' Psalms 23:4 

In contrast to darkness, light exposes everything. When the sun rises, other threats loom, guilt and shame. Light exposes sin, even the hidden ones. In the Garden of Eden after committing the original sin, Adam and Eve covered their nakedness with fig leaves and hid from God. Why? Sin produces shame.

The way most Christians deal with their shame is to confess our sins and accept Christ’s forgiveness. But some continue to remain crippled by their guilt. They enter into a deep misery; feeling they must pay for their sin. Jesus has already paid the price and penalty; we confess our sin, we must let Jesus forgive.

Forgiveness brings release but guilt brings remorse. Some never experience release and they remain trapped in their remorse. They go around perpetually feeling bad about themselves. This is probably what is meant with the statement 'the sun will strike you by day.' Every morning after waking up with the sunrise, they wallow in their shame.

Fear and guilt, the threats of the sun by day and the moon by night; How do we deal with these? The Bible says to look to God. He will protect us. Dr Robert Solomon, Bishop Emeritus of the Methodist Church in Singapore advised to

• Repent, 
• Renounce
• Relinquish

these feelings of fear, guilt and shame. Then we will find Release.

Lionel