Sunday, 5 January 2020

Church Under Construction



Sagrada Familia (credit Edith Frost)
"...and on this rock, I will build my church, and the gates of Hell will not overcome it" Matthew 16:18

There is a church in Barcelona, the Sagrada Familia, the building of which started in 1894 but has remained under construction to date. As one can imagine it has become a tourist attraction. The architect is Antonin Gaudi and Barcelona has several iconic buildings designed by him. When asked why the project is taking so long to complete, Gaudi famously replied, "The patron of this project is not in a hurry".



Pat and Lionel at the Sagrada Familia (2001)

The Sagrada Familia is a grand and imposing structure with lots of promises but it still remains incomplete. In the same vein, the church of God remains under construction. Its members, we Christians are described as living stones, laid brick by brick and cemented to one another, to slowly but surely build God's house.

If this is so, it seems rather strange that Christians are often judgemental about their local churches. Instead of realising that these local churches are still work in progress, some Christians are so dissatisfied with their congregations that they would leave the local church. We are all sinners saved by the grace of Jesus Christ. If the church is made up of people like us, then surely it must be naïve to expect perfection.

So why are Christians often intolerant of their local churches? How often have we broken away from the congregation to move on to seemingly better churches, where there should be better worship, better fellowship, better teaching, better pastors, better leaders, better ministries only to find after a few months in the new church, that the same old church problems resurface?

Sometimes we are led to believe that the New Testament churches were perfect congregations but we have the New Testament letters precisely because these churches were imperfect and required corrections and rebukes. The Galatians were wrong on a basic point of doctrine. The Philippians were suffering from disunity. The Colossian church was suffering from a group within the church who regarded themselves as better than everybody else. Corinth had problems of immorality, of factionalism and unsound doctrine. Martin Luther once said; “The face of the church is the face of the sinner”.

In 2020 and 2021, my church, Charis Methodist Church is experiencing the physical inconvenience of rebuilding a new church sanctuary. Like buildings under construction it looks a terrible mess with all the dust and dirt, chaos and confusion. We are glad to find temporary premises to worship in; the Living Hope Methodist Church lending us their premises in the afternoon.  What worries me is that many of our church members will leave the Charis community to go to worship at more conveniently located churches. This will soon be an excuse to leave the church permanently.

Undeniably, our Charis church community (Koinonia) remains incomplete and imperfect; so are many churches too. Instead let us learn to accommodate and even forgive one another for any wrong doings done to each other.

The children in singing the song 'Kids under Construction' by Gaither and Paxton can tell the adults a thing or two


Kids under construction
Maybe the paint is still wet
Kids under construction
The Lord may not be finished

We're more than just accidents without the cause;
We're more than just bodies and brains.
God made us on purpose; we're part of a plan
He cares and knows us by name

Dear Jesus, please make me more patient and kind
And help us to be more like You.
And make room for all other children of Yours
For they are still growing too

So let us realise that Charis Methodist Church, the building and the people within are all still under construction. God has not finished with us yet. Then let us be grateful for God's patience with us, 'our patron who is not in a hurry.'

Lionel

Thursday, 23 April 2015

Luke - Gift from God

Luke@4Months

 'Children are a gift from God, they are a reward from Him.' Psalms 127:3 (NLT)

Our third grandchild, Luke was born on 23 April 2015. I am glad that he is named after the gospel writer and the book of Acts as well as a faithful early Christian disciple. Luke was a young man when he accompanied Paul on the missionary journeys and chronicled the acts of the early Christian church. He was the bearer of truth. It is our prayer that our grandson, Luke will follow after his namesake, become a faithful disciple of Jesus Christ and become a bearer of truth and the good news of the gospel.

By the time Luke came along we were all less anxious about his birth. Nevertheless, I remember that we pray everyday for his safe arrival, not being presumptuous, and when Luke came we thank God for His bountiful blessing: A Gift from God!

The striking feature about young Luke is his curly hair, this make for a photogenic photo along with his stare into the camera. 

We welcomed Luke into our family and introduced him to the family of God, just as Jesus said in Matthew 19:14,

'Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.'

Christianity has much to say about little children, how the Lord loves them and how they are truly blessed
  • Children are blessed by God. Mark 10:16 'And He took the children in His arms, placed His hands on them and blessed them.'
  • Children are gifts from God. Psalm 127:3 'Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.'
  • Children need nurture and guidance. Proverbs 22:6 'Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.'
  • Children need correction. Proverbs 29:17 'If you correct your children, they will bring you peace and happiness.' 
When Luke came, his parents and grandparents felt a duty to pass our faith down to him as we did for his two older siblings, James and Eleanor. Like the gospel writer, we pray that our little Luke will carry the torch of our faith.

So whenever I had the opportunity to put Luke to sleep, I would sing him a praise lullaby, 'I Love You Lord' followed by 'To Get A Touch From Lord Is So Real.' 


I love you, Lord
And I lift my voice
To worship you
Oh my soul rejoice
Take joy, my king
In what you hear
May it be a sweet sweet sound
In your ear


To get a touch from the Lord is so real
To get a touch from the Lord is so real
If you draw nigh to Him
He will draw nigh to you
To get a touch from the Lord is so real

Hallelujah, Hallelujah Jesus is coming, is coming again
Hallelujah, Hallelujah Jesus is coming, is coming again 

I prayed that these songs will be prophetic for Luke and become his legacy.



Lionel

Thursday, 3 October 2013

Celebrating the Flights of Life


"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His faithful servants" Psalms 116:5


There used to be death-houses1 tucked away in the dark alleys of Sago Lane in Chinatown, Singapore. People living out the last days of their lives would be left at these death houses to die. There, solitary and terminally-ill Chinese immigrants could rent a bed space for their dying moments. They had pre-purchased their coffins and funeral rites. The funeral parlour would be below these rental spaces.  In those days, the dying person faced terminal illnesses alone often without the prospect of family and community support.

Not anymore.

Dover Park Hospice (DPH) was set up in 1992 to provide care for patients at the end of life. Now, these patients can live out their last days in comfort and dignity – lovingly cared for by an expert team trained in palliative care. What’s more, the hospices in Singapore have been engaging the public and community, creating awareness and societal support.

One example is the recent “Hospice Is….” Art Project initiated by DPH and the LaSalle College of the Arts (LCA). The project involved people from all walks of life, ranging from hospice patients and their families, staff and volunteers from the hospice fraternity, community partners and the general public. They were encouraged to express their feelings about end-of-life issues and Hospices and paint these thoughts onto pre-molded dove figurines. The dove is the symbol of the Dover Park Hospice.

Art Therapy is a creative way to express emotions, thoughts and states of being that may be difficult to share and communicate with others. There is an intrinsic therapeutic value in creating something with one’s own hands and then to share this with others.

Thus, using art to transcend barriers, the project and the ensuing exhibition from 3 to 7 Oct 2103 served as a platform for Singaporeans to share their perceptions on hospice care. It was hoped that the public will become more aware of these end-of-life issues and help de-mystify the concept of the hospice movement.

The success of the open art exhibition in contrast with the hidden death houses in the past, indicates the gradual change in societal attitudes towards taboo subjects such as the death and dying in Singapore.

So, why do we care and why are the dying moments important? In DPH our motto is “Every Moment Matters”. This means that whatever time is left for life should be lived in the most meaningful way. The hospice offers support and specialist care to achieve this aim. No one is left alone to die.

In the same way no Christian will face death alone. Psalms 116:5 informs that God will always be with us.



Lionel
1. Click on hyperlink to view You-tube of Death-Houses of Sago Lane

Monday, 31 December 2012

The Quintessential Pastor

A Pastor and Her Congregation
 Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood. I know that after I leave, savage wolves will come in among you and will not spare the flock. Even from your own number men will arise and distort the truth in order to draw away disciples after them.  So be on your guard! Remember that for three years I never stopped warning each of you night and day with tears.” Acts 20:28-31

On the last day of 2012, we paid tribute to our outgoing Pastor Tan-Yeo Lay Suan, bidding her farewell after 7 years as the pastor-in-charge of Charis Methodist Church. There were heaps of sincere praise and an outpouring of gratitude.

Lay Suan came to our local congregation in January 2006, our very first lady pastor. She is petite, a trifle frail, but she is a powerhouse minister, performing her many duties as Pastor-in-Charge resolutely and with patience and gentleness.

Church elder, Koh Wan Yee aptly summarised her 7 years ministry in Charis, calling her “…a quintessential pastor, a pastor to all members for all seasons”. 


A minister of the church is a time-honoured vocation.  It is an onerous job. At times, it can be filled with agonising moments of disappointments whilst other times are filled with the elation and joys of having influenced and assisted others in their spiritual journeys. No achievement can surpass that of having guided people through difficult periods, healing hurts, sustaining spirits and restoring their spiritual health.

Unobtrusively, Lay Suan had the courage to exert her leadership in a manner after Bishop Emeritus Robert Solomon’s advice: “As ministers of order, pastors must exercise pastoral leadership, leading not just with the exhortation of their words, but also with the example of their lives. Pastors must also motivate their flocks to follow Christ and to live lives worthy of God. Their leadership must be exercised through personal involvement in the lives of their flocks. They must earn the respect of their flocks in the way they conduct themselves. They must lead their flocks." (Ref 1).

To these duties, Pastor Tan-Yeo offered herself unreservedly and unpretentiously. In so doing, she led, nurtured, encouraged, counselled and protected the flock just as St Paul expected in his farewell message to the Ephesians elders in Acts 20. 
She left behind an indelible mark and she will be remembered with fondness.


Lionel

Ref 1: R.S. Solomon Ordination Service at 28th Session of the Chinese Annual Conference, Singapore 13 Nov 2003.